PROACTIVITY

Stacking up files on a table would  put pressure on both the table similar to that on your mind when you stack up your problems. Leaving some hurdles can altogether add up and come as a small hill or even a mountain in front of you. The attempt to face your problem or task and not leaving it up for the upcoming time can make a good trait called being proactive, you could find the  problem and react to it or let it act upon you. 

Man is such in nature that he does not accept things unless he has gone through them or felt them or experienced them. For a man to face his problems he has to know and believe that proactivity can be a trait which would help him saving himself, not everyone is born with the same nature and same instincts but we see that reactions to different kinds of people is same for some problems. If someone has lost his/her wallet what would be his/her reaction? Yes you know it! You, I and everyone else would react in the same way that is panic, anxiety and etc. So we see despite having different nature we react the same way.

But the difference lies with in the urge to keep yourself above your problems. Being proactive means to respond before your problem would affect you. The difference lies in the discipline to maintain yourself. A very open example of which we are all very familiar are exams, you know your exams are coming, for most of us these are nothing more than a problem, LOL! But the thing to be noticed is that if one student prepares for it, he will pass no matter what, but the one who does not prepare you know better whats going to happen to him. 

Here it is not about passing or failing an exam, what I want to convey is that it is a tendency of every being to be able to stay in a safe or more precisely in a comfort zone, similar is the case with human beings. Man tends to stay in a comfort zone and he gets really annoying when the time to react at a problem is lost. This is a matter of life behavior where one needs to trust in the process and know that the trait of being proactive lies already inside himself but it needs recognition above comfort zone or there will be a way which a man would never like and that is a problem acting upon him.

For being proactive, a man's self-awareness is very important that where is he lying in the ocean of himself? Only then, he can polish the trait. Man has to know where he is lagging to make a ladder up to his achievements. Self-awareness always comes with conscience and will, the conscience of knowing the mistake, admitting it and willing to make it right. If a man always believes he is right then he is already drowned in the sea of his misconception.One has to confront his mistakes and make them right, this gives birth to the spark of being proactive .

Life is a mixture of ups and downs already and what a man can do is know that falling back is not the solution rather to understand the upcoming hurdle and making a plan react at a suitable time is what saves him. This is what being proactive is, man has to bring up this quality from the depth of himself

rather than keeping it as an anchor.