Life in a Nutshell

Human mind has been trained so much in such a way that if it hears the word "centre", it pops up a window of importance, where the thing under consideration would be of great value. It relates to the core of the things under discussion. Humans being different in nature also have different likes and dislikes, that is why depending upon the nature humans can be centered by varying factors. When a person is centered by a certain factor, he gets disturbed with the changes in that factor. These factors are already in front of us. A person may be partner centered, money centered, family centered, friends centered, enemy centered, fame centered. These all factors sound different but the affect they do is that they limit the person's thinking to their circle only. When a person is partner centered, he/she puts all the efforts to make the partner happy. Their ultimate goal becomes to satisfy their partner in every matter. Making your partner happy and satisfied is n...

Stacking up files on a table would  put pressure on both the table similar to that on your mind when you stack up your problems. Leaving some hurdles can altogether add up and come as a small hill or even a mountain in front of you. The attempt to face your problem or task and not leaving it up for the upcoming time can make a good trait called being proactive, you could find the  problem and react to it or let it act upon you.  Man is such in nature that he does not accept things unless he has gone through them or felt them or experienced them. For a man to face his problems he has to know and believe that proactivity can be a trait which would help him saving himself, not everyone is born with the same nature and same instincts but we see that reactions to different kinds of people is same for some problems. If someone has lost his/her wallet what would be his/her reaction? Yes you know it! You, I and everyone else would react in the same way that is panic, anxi...

Change being inevitable is a precious gift for mankind. It looks silly to say change being a gift but if the right context matches up to the discussion,it surely is. Every second change is happening in you and around you. Things are evolving, things are diminishing, life is happening, death is being counted, each second is relying on change. Yet some things remain unchanged but world is not always a place of sunshine and rainbows, even some core emotions can turn blue. World has seen brothers fighting for each other's blood, sons rebelling their fathers, money shattering the wall of love of a couple. You can never escape change, your age is changing, your moods and emotions change with it as well. The point is never to run from change rather one should accept it with open arms, even in life people without even knowing are changing themselves. We think that we are not changing because the aroma of reactions to outer situations blindfold our senses of change.  The accept...

Roads are always leading to one destination but every traveler may experience difference in their journey, similar is the case of life we are in the same train  of life but each one of us has different stop, different abilities. Life can be as sweet as honey and it can be as bitter as poison, it has its own nature. Life is another name of hardship, there is no guarantee of stress free or worry free life. Man on other hand being discontent is another hurdle of himself in this journey. Life does give hard time to everyone, there is not even a single person who would say that he never went through some distress time in his or her life. In the circumstances of pressure and sadness man starts to loose hope, this is where it gets wrong when one starts to deviate from belief in himself. The fuel for man to move on is the belief and hope, hard work comes along when one has these things. Man encircles himself in the midst of despair and starts thinking if he is the only one who i...

Mindset plays an important role in our lives, it can make us bear the severe pressure of life and come out as a shining pearl. Mind being able to think on its own still becomes captivated by various of reasons and starts to dwell in a kind of cage created by its own. Mind has been given the freedom to think, observe and make decisions for right and wrong. Human in its nature has a slice of fear as well, this is what put boundaries to the mind. Fear suppresses the power of mind and creates a doubt for oneself and his/her capabilities. You see, every human is different thus the fear and its extent is different for everyone. Someone may be afraid of swimming, someone may be afraid of  skydiving and it goes on and on. People have different phobia but the process to mind freedom for everyone is same.  Mind being afraid of something starts to develop a cage inside you and living in that looks safer to you. You limit  your abilities your power to only that extent and wh...

Words, being abstract can be as hard as a rock or soft as cotton. Words can be a great power if used well. Man has been too much in the cage of comparison that he thinks power of things depend on their size, the greater the size, the greater the power. This has lead the focus of mankind away from the most powerful thing within themselves. Yes, I am talking about "WORDS". Words being abstract can be a deadly weapon to put deep scars on a soul or they can be a great source of warmth and kindness to save a soul, but the use of such words depend on the man solely. Words can be a source of motivation, inspiration to youth and nation, an enlightenment to the depressed ones. You can either crack someone and a put a hole through their heart or make up the already hole. People love to be loved and words are the very first means of appreciating them, showing love to them. The choice to use good words for people is really a had thing, that is only where the problem is. Man ...

Life is never a smooth and straight line for anyone rather it is always a salad of ups and downs with a sauce of hardships on top. On this journey of life we sometimes run, fall, stumble then get up and sometimes this cycles keeps on going on. Life itself is already as much complicated as it is simple, it means you can never predict it. Sometimes it goes as per your plan and sometimes it shows you how things are done. Here comes the day savior called "Consistency", what a beautiful trait as well as a painful one unless accepted. Consistency means to keep going on in anything to achieve a goal with all your even and odd. Life already described is not a bed of roses, either you can stay where you are or move and get out of the hell which you are suffering from, what would come to you as an answer to gain success is consistency. It means that when life hits you hard and it seems impossible to even get up, you need to remind yourself about your worth, what you had been al...